When Someone Makes It About You
There is a specific move a conversation makes where the thing on the table suddenly becomes you. You feel it before you can name it. The next two seconds decide the next hour, maybe the next week. These are the notes I keep for that moment. If you only remember five lines from this post, remember these: 1. Pause. 3 to 5 seconds. Say nothing. 2. Say "say that again." Flat, no edge....